![]() She is 88 and the Care Home recently said that she no longer seemed to be on a plateau, but was on a 'steady decline', whatever that means. Has anyone else had experience of a PWD saying this? I'm hoping it's just another phase of her illness. I found this really distressing as it made me think something had happened and she thought people were trying to kill her. She seemed really suspicious of everyone and was eyeballing the other residents and when I went to help her stand up from her chair, she said 'Don't kill me'' several times. I visited her this morning and she had ripped all the bandages off her arm, that the nurse had put on. She had another fall a couple of days again by stepping backwards and falling over a step she has a badly bruised face and cuts on her arm as she scraped it down a door frame. that my husband and I couldnt afford for me to be a stay-at-home mom and fearful of. The Home explained exactly what happened.and I have faith in them it's a small informal place and I have got to know a lot of the staff well. Id been crying for two weeks just thinking about this moment and. Its so hard not to smile, and spill the beans already - man, it feels so good, so hot, so right. ![]() So, so to speak, whether we tell her or not, I will be showing her that somethings coming. She had two black eyes and bashed her forehead. Of course were gonna have to tell her, sooner or later it will be obvious anyway. Stay-at-home mothers are in the minority and can often be made to feel inferior for having chosen to forsake their career and stay home with their children. My mum had a fall a few months ago as she gets very tired as she refuses to go to bed at night. Her speech is mostly garbled, but she is still eating and can usually go to the toilet on her own. Mothers will protect their children with the price of their own lives. They will not sleep or eat until you come home and they know you’re safe and sound. She has no memory of people or places and usually looks straight through me as there is no recognition. Mothers leave all their personal needs behind so their children can have everything they need. I realise this is due to her condition and I talk with the Care Home workers so we can work out best strategies for whatever situations happen. 7,327 mom thinking FREE videos found on XVIDEOS for this search. She has hit people with her stick if she doesn't want to do what she is asked. ![]() My mum can be very un-cooperative and insists she owns the Care Home so can go where ever she likes, in and out of other resident's room, emptying drawers etc. My parents had been hiding the extent of her decline and when my dad died last February she had no capacity and after going for respite care, never went home again. We weren't able to take her for scan as it was thought the detrimental effect of her leaving the Home outweighed knowing exactly what she was suffering with. So while on the one hand shes hoping your mom’s the mother (in-law) of her dreams kind, loving, open, and nurturing, eager to welcome her into the family and share her life and memories with. My mum has been in a Care Home for nearly two years we think she has a mix of Alzheimers and Vascular dementia. ![]()
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